Whats does it mean if a newly ex boyfriend unblocks AND refriends an old friends with benefits on instagram

IF YOU READ THIS WHOLE THING YOURE AMAZING 💖

Edit: i dont need comments telling me to Move on!! I know he can do what he wants! You also cant snap your fingers the day after a breakup and stop loving someone. Im over this situation. Im asking for advice on when he messages me next and what the reason might be for him to message her. Out of my genuine curiousity. Not because im still head over heels in love, thanks. And some genuine kind advice would be helpful. Judgmental rude comments arent very supportive, so if its rude you can keep it to yourself.

I dontneed any “move on” comments i already know that. I want to hear the truth and harsh. Anyone ever experience this? Im honestly pissed. And no hes not the manipulative type, hes always been kind respectful and a good boyfriend. Hes never cheated or flirted and we both blocked and deleted old hookups and everything like that. He agreed and said its wrong. We hung out 3 days ago, and he texted me lets hang out again to take me out for food. He keeps initiating texting me and im just whatever and mentally checked out and dont want him back bc of some other reasons. Hes a grown man not a loser. Hes mature. So why tf would he add her back? And its FUNNNYYY because he asked me if im talking to anyone new. I said its none of your business but i don’t mind sharing and the answer is no. He asked me if i unblocked any old guys on my phone and i said hell no. No reason to. This was before he added her back what an asshole. This is why id rather die single. I cant trust anyone. And sure we aren’t together, why should i care right? Well he said they could never really chat like we could, because she doesn’t get him and he could never see himself dating her because they arent compatible romantically. Well they MUST be compatible enough for him to stick his dick in her and have her cum all over him for months while they were fucking in the past. In the past he went to her in the past for advice about OUR relationship. They both claimed it was nothing wrong but BOTH had me his girlfriend and she had a boyfriend. They hid this from both of us. It seems he goes to her for advice about his fucked up life. This is the shadiest thing he’s done. And all i can say is trust your intuition trust your intuition trust your intuition. Im honestly HURT over this. Fuck HIM.

No need to be “friends” anymore since shes SO great of a friend. Hes not the type to sleep around, only has 10 body count at 31. And only has sex in a commitment type situation. And im not gonna fuck him anymore, he can find someone else to open up to and be vulnerable with. I accepted him during his hard times when no one was there. And yes he was there for me too. I also accepted his body issues. He had a tummy tuck and has a gnarly scar for it. I never judged him for it, but im the only one he openly shared that to, not even her and is super insecure about his body.

No shaming his body, but im sexy asf. And he knew i was out of his league. Im just over it. And hes not a bad guy, he is respectful. I know his ass is gonna text me again very soon.

Oh and sure were not together so no big deal. He never cheated, he can do what he wants now But the fact that he went back and added her and theyre probably chattin it up, just shows that he was emotionally connected still during our time together. and failed to share this with me.

✨Anyways, I need to come up with some smart ass confident ass text to send him next time he tries to hit up my line 😊😊 any suggestions?

(No im not crazy just pissed and over dating, and now have an ever HIGHER cant trust no bitch attitude)