Just So Frustrated.

I'm just so frustrated I'm a mom of 4 little girls who works the night shift 10 pm to 6am. I was so happy when I got off this morning. I was thinking I'd get some sleep once my husband got up. Well turns out he stayed up all night and that means he will sleep most of the day. I just feel so disrespected when I told him I'm the only one that won't get sleep today he tells me to shut up and to quit bitching. Any time we have a argument he gets mean and Nasty and says I'm not a little b***h I'm not going to let you or anyone walk all over me. I've been feeling disconnected from him and I think I'm starting to lose feelings for him.