Would you be upset or does he have a point?

I am 29 weeks pregnant with an unplanned second baby. I got pregnant 3 months postpartum and this baby is considered high risk. When we first found out, my partner was insistent that I got an abortion but when he realized that I wasn’t letting him influence my decision, he let it go and, I thought, even seemed to come around to the idea of having her. He would talk about how he loved her and would protect her, etc.

For the past week, I’ve been struggling and feeling overwhelmed. Our other little one is teething and clingy, my body hurts, the way baby lays hurts and her movements feel uncomfortable, I haven’t slept for more than 3 hours even with multiple home remedies and medication, I failed my glucose test and have a gut feeling I won’t pass the 3 hour either, I have to have iron infusions because I’m severely anemic, I have a rash on my belly that burns (doctor didn’t seem concerned and said to try home remedies- that don’t help), baby has already tried to come, I miss having my body to myself, it’s just a lot. Especially back to back.

I try to vent to my partner and he was helpful for a few days. But then today, he tells me he’s tired of me being sad “all the time” (it’s been since Monday morning that I’ve been struggling bad and it’s only Wednesday night…) and how “he told me in the beginning that I had a choice and I chose this so he doesn’t know what I want him to say/do about it now”.