Am I okay to feel this way?

Question

So my husband & I have relationship problems. We argue constantly or disagree on our parenting styles. We don’t really spend time together & I can’t tell you how many times we’ve said we were separating.
Well today we’re fine. But I woke up feeling sad. Like just not happy. For really no reason other than I don’t want to be in this relationship anymore but I’m feeling guilty because no argument happened, nothing actually, directly caused me to feel this way.
I’ve been thinking about it all day & I just feel so done. I want to be free. But I’m feeling so guilty for feeling this way.
We’ve been together for 6 years & have 2 kids
Throughout our whole relationship, we’ve had problems. I’m tired.

Answer

I think feeling that way on a ‘good’ day is very telling. Even on days you don’t fight with your spouse you’re still feeling done, that sounds like you’ve made your decision and need to tell him you want a divorce.

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Maybe involve a marriage councelor.  Marriage can hv its exhausting challenges but like anything worth having u have to put in the work. A experienced marriage councelor can help pin point your problems and help u guys work on solutions and even help u terminate if necessary. But please involve someone with more experience and knowledge than u… because it can be like thinking you have to cut off an arm thats paining you… instead of diagnosing a simple problem that simply needed therapy not amputation. If that makes sense

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You can't let yourself feel guilty to choosing the path that is right for you. I know exactly what you mean though and have felt this exact same way.

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I think for women it takes us a while to emotionally check out of a relationship and it seems your clearly at that point, we can withstand quite a lot of BS and even put other things in front of our own happiness, we think of every aspect like the kids, breaking the family up etc… and of the course or months even years we just disconnect a little from the other person causing so much hurt to our souls. 
I think your ready for the next chapter in your life, make a plan and think about life without him and how it looks and if in fact that’s definitely what you want if it cannot be saved then move on with your plan to leave 👍🏻

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This relationship doesn't sound healthy at all.. the arguments.. u being unhappy will have an impact on ur children.. not to mention u and ur emotional well being.

Am I okay to feel this way?

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