Our life is so stationary

I’ve been wanting to get married and start a family for so long. My fiancé proposed two years ago and still no wedding. We haven’t even talked about planning it out. I show him some dresses and venues and he talks about me taking his last name but nothing ever comes from it. I’m completely fine with a simple courthouse wedding or just something very small, maybe 20 people. I feel like he makes excuses by saying that he wants something huge so we need to save more. He also said that he would like his mom (an event planner) to help us plan and decorate but he has never said anything to her about it. We’ve also been ttc for a year and have been unsuccessful. He says that he really wants to be a dad and grow our family. He prays over my belly and everything. But at the same time he’s kind of nonchalant about it? Like I mentioned that we don’t have enough sex. I know it only takes one time but we should be focusing on having sex around ovulation, and not just completely winging it because that obviously hasn’t worked for us. He basically says that that takes the fun out of it which is understandable but I’m just so hurt seeing friends and family getting pregnant, having multiple children, getting married, and we’re still… stagnant. I’m really not trying to compare but I can’t help but notice life moving on for everyone else and I’m still waiting. Idk. Please be kind. I asked him recently when we would get married and he said next year but I don’t believe that. I just don’t want to force the issue anymore but I also want to be heard and reassured that we’re on the same page and we have the same goals.