I went to my midwife for a pap and told her that we were trying to get pregnant and I knew my weight was going to be an issue with my fertility but hearing it out loud from your medical professional is hard. She was super nice about it and told me that it’s not impossible to get pregnant right now but my chances of getting pregnant would skyrocket if I lost about 100 pounds and that if I did get pregnant right now there’s a chance everything would be fine but it probably wouldn’t be the best thing for me or my baby. This was all said a lot nicer than I expected it to be said but it still sucks to hear