Avoidant attachment style

This guy I talk to I thought he was being weird like basically a player but he’s actually always been quiet since the first day I ever met him. We were both in the car and he didn’t say anything for two mins … I had to start the convo which I hate because I have social anxiety 😭 he was like we can’t both sit here and be quiet Bc I don’t talk much myself….. How do you deal or get In intimate relationships with people with this attachment style?? I don’t wanna push him away..

I even remember one time he told me I’d get tired of him eventually..