Okay so I'm married with a 21 year old step daughter. She works and wastes all of her money. But what gets me worse than anything is that sometimes she has this god awful attitude. I have seen her literally stand in her grandma's face and cuss her out. Well anyway, her dad and I have wanted to buy something that we could have fun in for a while and we had started looking at side by sides.. when she found out she literally looked at him and said "you know I'll be driving it everywhere on my days off right?!" It may have been a joke but it really rubbed me the wrong way.. well we finally found one and we're going to pick it up this weekend. Of course she wants to go along so what I thought would be a fun little road trip with my husband will now be filled with her talking about what she wants to do with something him and I bought. He says he's gonna set rules and she won't have it all the time but I just have a bad feeling that it's gonna be something we pay for and he's gonna let her do whatever she wants. It wouldn't be so bad if you could trust her. I know that sounds terrible but she has no respect for anyone else's property. There has even been a few instances of drinking and driving recently. I don't mean to sound like I don't want her in it or whatever but Im not paying that much money for her to keep the thing out all the time. Not to mention my husband is kind of a pushover when it comes to her for certain reasons. She dosent know why but I do. It's not a good reason but it is what it is. So yeah I'm just feeling all kinds of emotions over this wether it be aggravation or stress. She even looked at him today and said " well what am I supposed to do if you guys are always out riding?" I feel like the fact that she literally is only ever here to sleep is relevant here. She never wanted to spend time with us until we were buying something she wanted.. 🙄🙄🙄 I know it's probably stupid but I'm so annoyed and really needed to get that out.