So I made a post recently about my friends Zach and Emma and Zach’s friend Spencer.

So like I said Zach has been spending all this time with Spencer, he’s basically gone radio silent with everyone but him.

This really hurt Emma and I because Zach used to be so close with us. I talked to my bf about it and he said that maybe Zach is going through something and that’s why he’s with Spencer more because he feels more comfortable telling a guy, which I can see.

But you’ve got to understand that Zach has gone radio silent, canceled on us for a month, always been with Spencer, given us attitudes for no reason, and basically done some really shitty things.

Tonight he showed up saying he didn’t hate us and was just going through something and he was trying to find out who he was and he had family things going on. But as soon as we didn’t fall to our knees and say “it’s okay Zach, it’s okay you can hurt us all the time and it’ll be fine” he blew up.

We explained to him that him doing some things he did, did hurt us. We told him we understood why he wanted to be with Spencer if something was happening, but we had no idea something was happening and still the way he treated us was completely out of line.

When we explained how it hurt us he went on a whole rant telling us to drop him and that he’d be fine, telling us everyone else drops him, saying “sorry I’m not able to fucking please everyone” everything like that.

Zach never listens when we try to explain things, he just blows up and tries to guilt trip us instead. I love Zach bc he’s my best friend and cousin, but I am so tired, so incredibly fucking tired. I can’t explain things to him anymore, I can’t stand to hear his same story over and over every time someone has an issue with the way their being treated.

He doesn’t understand that while he’s going through something he was still rude as all fuck to us and yes he still has to take fucking accountability for that.

I’m just drained, I’m tired of talking about it to him I’ve put it as simply as I could to him and I’m done fighting