Is it wrong

Is it wrong that I want my bf of two years and we have a baby together to pay for our stuff. He wants it to be equal I pay stuff sometimes n he does to but the thing is before he met me he would give a lot of girls money just so they could talk to him lol n he never met any of them I’m his first gf he had in person.. I don’t mind paying for stuff but I feel some type of way bc none of those girls gave him anything just used him and he wants me to pay for stuff.. also I’ve bought my baby mostly everything she’s needed she will be a month tomorrow he has but mostly me. But I do live with him I don’t pay anything like bills we live with his parents but he pays them rent. I buy food though like groceries. And when I say he wants it to be equal it’s stuff like clothes or stuff for the baby or fast food stuff like that lol.

I have been paying for everything mostly everything for my baby lol but I feel like if he could easily give other girls money before he could buy his baby stuff or me since I had his whole kid

Like for example last week he said that he would buy her something for her to go in whenever we’re outside so the mosquitoes put on her and he didn’t so I guess I have to again.

I’m OK with equal but it’s not equal at all I’m the one buying most of the stuff and when I mean most of it it’s really most of it for our baby and also he wants me living there with his parents I told him before I was almost about to sign a contract to an apartment and he told me no not to get it I still want an apartment but he’s the one that wants us there he says we should stay there for now

I don’t care if it’s equal I will pay for half of the stuff to I don’t care I just feel some type of way because he didn’t expect nothing from the other girls he didn’t tell them to be equal so why should I be for

Lol he doesn’t even want me to go back to work I said once the baby is like three months she could go to daycare or her grandma can watch her and he says no that I have to wait until she’s around two or three because she’s too little right now and that I need to stay home so if you text me to be a stay at home mom cook for him wash for him do everything for him get up for the baby every single night every two hours then he can pay for everything because I’m doing everything basically and like I said those girls did nothing for him and he still gave them everything so why shouldn’t I get everything if I’m already doing everything for him

I love him but why doesn’t he give us money easily like he did with other girls especially since it’s his daughter n I had her

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