Date being evasive after sex
Okay, I know this will get some of you girls rolling your eyes to the ceiling, but there it is.
I (F22) started seeing this guy (M32) from Tinder a couple of weeks ago. We
hit it off and after one or two dates I slept over.
I should also mention that I’m staying in this city short term and I was just looking for some FwB, nothing too serious.
I am super attracted to this guy, but when we were having sex I was in a lot of pain as he is quite big and I was particularly dry that evening. We were both quite drunk at that point, I asked him to stop and that was it. We cuddled and fell asleep and the following day we texted a little about our day (he initiated it) but nothing serious.
This week I texted him to see him again but he seems quite evasive and probably doesn’t want to meet - as in, leaving me on read or just being evasive. It sucks, but whatever, I’m not too hung up about it. I just came here to understand if I did anything wrong and if I could make a mental note for the next time it happens.
Was it rude of me to ask him to stop? Was it bad for me to interrupt him during sex and do you think he is avoiding me because of that? Is there any way to handle it better for the next time it happens with somebody else?
Thank you in advance for your advice! I really don’t know if I’m the bad guy here and should have acted any different.
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