Anyone with a 11+ year old have anxiety and tell them they hate you

Feeling so worn out and bad on how I just of made my mum feel when I was a bitch to her.

One of my eldest seems to have such a low mood, school is such a struggle she hates it so much which really affects her and we haven't even hit secondary school.

She is forever messaging her friends saying how she hates me which she doesn't know I've seen.

I do all I can for her and it breaks my heart