Using pulling out?

Question

My husband and I have one son together who is 3. Before him, we used the pull out method for 8 years until we decided to try for himZ now I badly want another baby and he does not. I feel terrible for wanting this while he doesn't. But we are using the pull out method, which for us has been reliable.... But I'm still hoping to get pregnant. I can't take other birth control for medical reasons and he refuses to wear a condom. Am I terrible for feeling this way? It's not like I'm tricking him into pregnancy. We talked already, and if we do get pregnant, it will be ok. We know it's always a possibility but doubt we will. :( 
Do I talk to him again about it or just go on?

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If he refuses to wear a condom, he is accepting the possibility of pregnancy. In no way does this mean you are tricking him into pregnancy. If it happens, he is equally responsible.

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I don't think you're terrible. You're not doing anything different than when you didn't want another child, right? And if he refuses to wear condoms, it's on him too if you end up pregnant.

But I would still talk to him about how you're feeling. Pulling out doesn't always work, I have a two year old from what I thought was perfect use of it haha ;)

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Well he has to accept that there is a possibility to get pregnant if he doesn't use condoms. It's not exactly tricking him if he refuses to wear condoms, I am sure as a grown adult he understands the consequences of his actions.

Still, I would try to talk to him about how you feel

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don't trick him into another child. relationships end when one person is ttc and the other isn't. if you love him you can wait

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He refuses to wear a condom so obviously he must know pregnancy can happen. Especially while using the pull out method.

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Talk to hime about it...I had a miscarriage in feb. Due to getting pregnant on bc. I want a baby so bad, but my husband does not right now...just to get bills paid, bigger house...if we use the pull out method, which is rare...we use condoms now instead of bc...but I pray that I'll end up pregnant. He has said the same, that if it's meant to be then we will get pregnant using precautions...there's nothing wrong with the way you feel. Maybe talk to him again and find out his reasons. And ask when he would be comfortable starting to try for another baby.

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