Cancelling My Wedding
I’m getting married in about 4 months and I’m thinking about canceling my wedding. Not because I don’t want to marry my partner but because I feel like planning this wedding is causing stress and aggravation. I wanted a small beach wedding and I had to change it because of my partners mother. We found a party venue but it’s not meant for weddings, it’s a party hall and I’m not crazy about it to be honest. I found another venue that’s about $300 more than the party venue and I get it for the whole day. It’s a house with a backyard. It comes with everything included. It sounds perfect but my partner doesn’t want to pay more money. I told him if I’m not in love with where I’m getting married I’m not doing it. I told him I don’t want to look back and regret it. That I’m not gonna choose just anywhere because it’s cheap and not like it. I’m not a difficult person at all. I’m the kind of person who will look for the most affordable options. I don’t like spending money on unnecessary things. I don’t get nails done or hair done. I don’t shop constantly for myself. I don’t ask for money from him even though it both of our money. I’m just not like that. So asking for a bit more for my wedding does feel weird for me and I feel demanding but if I’m gonna get married I’m either gonna love it or I’m just gonna cancel it all together and have a small courthouse wedding.
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