Oral .. deal breaker?

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So I have sexual trauma / was sexually assaulted by my last boyfriend.
And as a result I have trauma and cannot make myself give oral to another guy. Is this a dealbreaker for most guys? Like I feel like it’s a big deal to most but the fact that I physically and mentally can’t do it will make me not be able to have another relationship

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It won’t be a deal breaker for the right guy. ♥️ I’m sorry for what you’ve been through

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Not a deal breaker for emotionally mature men.

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It just depends what the guy prefers. This would be a deal breaker for me in a relationship and I think it’s obnoxious to be rude about someone considering this a deal breaker (not OP just some of the comments). It doesn’t make them a bad person if that’s a deal breaker for them. Plenty of people aren’t interested in oral very much. It’s sexual preference and it has nothing to do with their maturity level or morality.

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I mean to some, sure. Everyone is different though

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It might be a deal breaker for some and if it is then you and that person aren’t compatible! 
Just be straight up from the get go and let them know it’s no compromising either it’s just something you won’t be doing (even if you think in the future you’ll be into it, keep it to yourself until you’re 100% comfortable).

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Like others said, won’t be a deal breaker for the right guy! I’m so sorry you went through that though. My thoughts are with you girly, not every guys a shitbag I promise! 💛

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Oral is never a requirement, nor is anything you do not want to do. Some people are sad not to have that in their sex life, but that's not something you should feel guilty for. 
For instance, if you hypothetically had a fetish for butt stuff on guys, would you feel mad or consider it a deal breaker if they weren't comfortable with doing that ever? I think most people wouldn't pressure someone else or even WANT them to do something they aren't okay with in bed. It seems like only shitty people would be like that, imposing their desires on someone they supposedly care about like that. 
It's just one sex act, and there are so many others. 
And people vary, some men don't really care about oral. Some men barely care about sex, in fact. Asexual people are totally a thing, of any gender, and they do sometimes have relationships. 
So just avoiding one sex act shouldn't be that big of a deal for people.

Oral .. deal breaker?

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