Don’t know what to say

I been having sex with someone for about 2 years.

We know each other pretty well.

Or so I thought, anyways we are not serious. We were serious once and it didn’t work. We still having sex. We are not committed to each other, I don’t have time to go out and see other people (since I’m a mother) he on the other, have had sex with women, once a year he has sex with 1 or 2 people.

The issue is recently he came to me and was like… “I have a date with someone” I said “that’s fine you’re getting some pus**y”. He told me to don’t say that since he since he only make love to a women it’s offensive to say “I’m getting some pus**y.

I’m trying to understand by what he mean he only make love to a woman, like man you’re kidding right. Last time I checked you only make love to someone you love. Not to every woman you fucking around.