Boyfriend issues 😞

Sorry for the long story.. Im sorry irritated and feeling down!

We have been together 5yrs this past year has been real rocky... Ever since I found out I was pregnant it's like we barely spend any time anymore. When he comes around it's at night and all he does is go to sleep.. I'm like what the use to even come around. He can hang out with friends, go to bars, and do everything else but be there for me. 3 weeks ago I finally told him either we are going to work on us and grow or we just need to work on coparenting so there is not any misunderstanding when the baby gets here. I don't wanna be mislead and end up being the crazy babymomma. Every since I asked him what's its gonna be I have not heard from him. It's been 3wks no call no text nothing.. I did not wanna go through this alone but it looks like I am. Am I overreacting??..