Why don’t I ever want to smash?

Question

Been with my husband 6 years - we have two kids 2 and 3. We have regular sex twice a week I’d say. But honestly I’d be okay never having it. I never feel in the mood, I never have orgasm. And it’s not his fault whatsoever. 
I never even felt like this when I was pregnant. My libido is just non existent. Is there anything I can do or take to help improve it ?

Answer

U could try different things & see if it helps at all. Such as erotic massages, sex toys, lingerie or sexy costumes, naughty couples games, new positions, new locations. Have u guys ever talked about fantasies? That may be something to do/try. How are u with porn? If it’s something u like or not don’t mind then u could watching it together & see if that does anything. 
If none of this helps, then I’d suggest seeing ur doctor & having ur hormone levels checked. Are u on any medications? Sometimes those can affect our libidos as well.

Answer

I'm going through the same thing. We've been together 11 years now. We have 3 kids. When we first got together we did it pretty much every day. Things slowed down over the years but it still happened regularly. I had my youngest 7 months ago. We stopped having sex when I was about 6 months pregnant and didn't try again until 12 weeks postpartum. I can honestly go without it. Since my daughters been born we have had sex maybe 4 or 5 times. I love him and I am attracted to him but I don't get turned on anymore. Like by anything.

Why don’t I ever want to smash?

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