Hypocrite or what ?

My fiancé was justifiably mad at me for coming home at 1am after going out with a friend. Because of that, I had to give myself a curfew so that I could be home at a time he found reasonable. And tonight, it’s 11pm, and he’s getting ready to go to some house party, of course without me because we don’t do anything together, and I asked him when he would be back. His response was “I don’t know”. I mean, it’s already 10pm and he’s usually out until about 3am. This “I don’t know” response is just showing me that he’s not setting a curfew for himself. SO it’s fine if he’s out till morning but I have to give myself a curfew to please him? I don’t even know what to say. How could he tell me that my behavior was inappropriate, and then do the same thing?

- I don’t know why we don’t do anything together. We go out to different restaurants but aside from that, we don’t do anything else. I don’t think we have the same interests but I do have fun with him. Most of the time we are inside though. He’s 24 and I’m 21.

- Why are you asking if we’re in a relationship? Obviously we are. We just had our 4 year anniversary. I’ve known him for 9 years.