Husband hardly comes home !

Hello , I have been with my partner for 10 years and we have two kids together. First 8 years were great but last two years been the biggest test for me .

My husband got a job 8-5 then after his official jobs he does private work as a builder etc .

Things are so bad that he hardly ever comes home and spend no time with me or our children at all . Last time we all went out together was 2 years ago !

I have tried talking to him many times he says he’s doing nothing wrong , he’s working and bringing money home . He also says let me work and you enjoy and spend the money .

He says he doesn’t have any issues and it’s only me complaining about this .

I don’t want the money all I want him to spend quality time with me and our kids . Sometimes he never comes home for 2 -3 days. I have 6 years old and 3 years old and they both said daddy loves his work and money more then his family .

I also work part time and before I met him I had my own house , good job and money .

I love him dearly and been trying to sort things out but nothing works . I am sexually very active and I want him at least one a week but I get nothing from him . He never asks if I’m ok , never kiss or cuddle and we have sex once or twice a month .

Can you please advice me what to do ? Carry on living my life the way it is or move on ?

Thanks in advance