Vasectomy disagreement?
Before my husband and I decided to have our second child we both agreed he would get a vasectomy. Well, our second child was born and now he’s going back on his word. Which obviously he has a right not to get one but I’m a little upset because I do not want to get pregnant again. My first birth was traumatic but this second one was even more traumatic. I had an episiotomy done and now things aren’t healing right and the whole labor and delivery and postpartum has just been a nightmare. I’m very set on not going through this again and I’m content with my two kids. Im not sure if he’ll change his mind but he knows how I feel about only having two kids but I think he thinks that he can change my mind. Any advice. I’m kinda worried about getting my tubes tied. I hear it’s a lot less invasive to get a vasectomy and I mean I went though birth twice I think he can handle a vasectomy!
Guys, I literally said I know he doesn’t HAVE to do it. I’m just upset because this is what we agreed upon prior to me getting pregnant .. shhheesh. But yes, already told him about the condoms! He literally says no but he will definitely be wearing them if he wants to have sex 😅 I wanted to note: birth control has very bad side effects for me. I get super depressed on top of other horrible symptoms. It just doesn’t work out for me. I refuse to go on it again.
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