Husband lost his cool in front of our daughters (long read)

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The meeting I’m taking about has nothing to do with HIS job. It’s a meeting you can choose to go to or not to go to. It’s a marketing thing.

My husband and I got into a fight. Our three year old has pink eye for the second time in not even two weeks so I need to take her to the pediatrician in the am. Hours before this I asked my husband to stay at home with our four month old so I didn’t have to bring her. To make it easier on myself since I’ve had to take her the past few times. Not a big deal, but it’s difficult.

Anyways, he was in the shower and said he forgot about a weekly meeting he has to go to around the same time. Which he can skip, he did when he was sick. And I said well you’re going to have to skip it because I need to take dd to the dr and really don’t want to take the baby. And he said this meeting isn’t a joke I can’t just not go. And I said something along the lines of well our daughters aren’t a joke either and I need help. Or something like that. Well apparently that made him mad. So when he got out of the shower he went into our bedroom and hit the light switch so hard, I was holding the baby and our three year old was following him into the room. And I asked him why he’s acting like that and he said I pissed him off, and on his way back towards us he punched the dresser and kicked it so hard the whole thing moved and hit the wall and stuff fell down from it. He did this in front of our kids. I instantly said why are you doing that and I started crying. I know I probably wouldn’t have said what I said but that’s not an excuse to act like that in front of our kids. He’s never done this before. And my daughter was saying she’s scared and to stop. I feel awful she saw it.

Now I feel like I can’t trust him or something.