Coming home late

Hi everyone

Real quick - would you be upset if your SO kept coming home late from places after he said he would be home by a certain time?

And I don't mean just a one off. I mean 3 times this month alone.

Went out with friends said he'd be home by 11 - said he was too drunk to come home and wasn't home until 3 am (knowing I had to work at 5am and he was supposed to watch our 3 year old).

Another time stopped at his parents - said he'd be an hour - messaged me three hours later saying he was about to leave.

And last night said he'd be home between 10-11 and wasn't home until 2 am and didn't even message (I also had to work this morning at 5am).

I was pissed. Woke him up and made a ton of noise getting ready this morning and chewed him out. Because it's one sided. I wouldnt dare do that to him because I respect him. I had to bring my 3 year old to my parents at midnight because I hadn't heard from him and didn't know when he'd be home.

I'm pissed off because it's a habit

Thoughts?!