WHAT THE HELL MOM!!!

Karischa
I'm so mad and dissapointed right now. My mom wanted us do get something done while we are there for christmas, but we should make an appointment, and we still want to decide yes or no if we want to do it. When we told her that there is no more places for this year, she said we should come back in January. 
Now my parents live 3 hours away, the long hours of driving is not good for me or the baby, and I always cramp after the drive.
So I told her we would come and do it in March, but she insisted we should come in January. So this lead to me explaining what the drive does to me, and that we would be driving from them the 29th, do my ultrasound on the 30th, go the hubbys parents ( also 3 hour drive) on the 1st and come back around the 7th and start work on the 11th. So it's lots of driving just to keep the family happy and she wants us to come again for that!
She absolutly refused to understand that it might put me and the baby in harms way to drive so much. She kept insisting, sitting there with a one track mind and the only thing that she could focus on is the appointment and not me and the baby's health! 
I'm so hurt to know how little my mom feels in times like these! Why is she like this?