Tell me you have had 2 or more chemical pregnancies/miscarriages and gone on to have a healthy pregnancy and baby!

I have had 2 chemical pregnancies in a row in my 3 months of ttc and am starting to think something is wrong and my body can't sustain a pregnancy 😕 I am hoping though that my body just needs to adjust because I was on birth control for 12 years!! Tell me there is hope! I am trying a new approach this month as well...fertile week starts Christmas day and I am not going to obsess and stress out like I have been because I know stress plays a huge part in miscarriages too...My new philosophy is to let it happen but I know I'll be so nervous if I get a bfp because I'm terrified it won't stick 😦