25 and my parents

Im almost 26 and live at home. I want to move out w my bf but my parents are really against that. I brought it up to them one time and they freaked out. I think saving at home definitely is the smartest and I will be for another year but I just have a concern.

My mom keeps complaining that all I do is either spend time in my room or with my bf. which isn’t true. during the week, I eat dinner downstairs, I go shopping with her on my off days, I watch tv with my dad once a week. I mean ive lived here my entire life and ive always hung out with them during my teen years, it’s just really annoying how she complains every single Sunday night after my bf leaves and just nit picks on every single little thing. it’s to the point where i have to go outside to my car to call my bf bc im scared my mom will hear and get mad that im spending time with him again. IM AN ADULT!! and she doesn’t realize that this is making me not wanna spend as much time with her as before. my bf is like my friend too so we do play games together and yes maybe it’s more than half the week but I mean that’s what we do at this age right?? im also working and in school. I just feel like my mom gets mad even when I say I have to do homework. she just came into my room saying “you’ll be so happy when u move out cuz you’ll be with ur bf and not with us” like HUUUH???? it’s just so frustrating and dramatic. my younger brother already moved out and he’s living his life… probably not the best financial decision but jeez this is making me go crazy. im a good adult child, I do my laundry and get all A’s, go to work. my room’s clean. I don’t party or get wasted and stay out late. like wtf more do they want from me? im an adult now.