I had a miscarriage and then a beautiful baby girl in November of 2018. She was born with a congenital heart defect and we lost her February of 2019. We struggled with infertility for a couple of years and then became pregnant with our second girl. She was born June of this year and in so many ways is our first baby. While we got to hold our oldest, she never came home and required 24 hour nursing care. And there are some things we didn’t realize we’d need.