Is it worth divorcing?

I am very torn on this…. So torn I have been questioning this for YEARS and have never made a decision!!!

When I married my husband he was definitely a drinker, but more so for social events. The only red flag is that he always took drinking too far.

Fast forward 3 years and he is drinking to the point of getting drunk 3-4 nights a week.

No abuse, no aggression, still able to hold a job, just useless since he is drunk beyond comprehension 4 nights a week.

Fast forward 2 more years and he is now into smoking. Loves it so much he is smoking daily, even the nights he is drinking. Again, no physical abuse or aggression…. But acts very weird when he is high. Completely not himself.

Still holding a way better job than I am. Manages our bills, consistently helping with yard work, repairs, renovations, etc.

When is it too much? I am exhausted because once 6pm hits he is in the garage drinking and smoking. No help with the kids at all. Everything is on me after 6.

I have expressed my concerns a million times but he always responds that he doesn’t care about my opinion on the matter and will not change for anyone.

At what point do I say enough is enough?