Would you be with a man like this?

This guy broke up with me, anyways, during this we started arguing.

In the beginning I had found females hair supplies in his bathroom, then the next time I visited, there was a large piece of hair/weave or wig, laying on his bathroom floor. I asked him about it and he says “he found it under his rug” there was no such thing when I was there the first time, I would’ve seen it.

He was also neatly folding his exes sports bra and tried to initially hide it but I saw.

So that placed a trigger on my anxiety and I would often make snide remarks.

He got upset and broke up with me.

He kept getting “annoyed” like I was the worst person and I was trying to be nice/cordial. So I’m asking, why’re you acting this way even though I was trying to be understanding towards you/your situation?

So I get upset and say, well, why come into my life if you knew you were broke, couldn’t take me out, etc. I’d have to keep asking when we’re going on a date since our last was about 1 month and a half ago. He would keep saying he has no money or he has no gas but would always be out with his biker buddies. I would always say, we don’t even need to go anywhere expensive, I’m ok with a cup of Starbucks and the beach or something.

He says, “I can’t afford coffee but when are you gonna treat me to coffee?”

So he gets upset and tells me during the argument:

“You always expect me to pay for shit, always wanting to go out and eat and get coffee, always asking me to take you out for food, so take your broke insecure ass and go find a man to support you since all you are is a gold digging broad anyways”

I mean what’s so wrong in me wanting to go on a date? I didn’t even mention anything about buying food or going anywhere crazy.

Yes, I wasn’t innocent but it’s so hard to control my triggers with this anxiety but I would always try to redirect myself and say calm down. But sometimes his behavior wasn’t helping as he’d also get aggressively upset if I said something he didn’t like.

I don’t need to be harshly judged lol but just venting.