Husband issues

My newest little is 3 weeks old today. I also have a 7yr old and a 3yr old. My husband isn't completely out of it. He will do bottle feedings during the day sometimes. He will change diapers sometimes. He will snuggle with the baby anytime he cries.

However. He will not help at night. (He's been off work for 6 weeks and doesn't go back till this Monday). He will not wake up to help. Warm bottles, change diapers. The baby feeds every 2 hours. I wake up in the morning and do breakfast, handle the other 2, take the dogs out, do the dishes, clean..all while he sleeps. He gets showers anytime he likes sometimes multiple a day. I go 2 or 3 days without a shower. He's snappy with the pets and other children. And hes already on me constantly about sex. I have no. Absolutely no desire to have him touch me let alone have sex. I'm at the point were I've gotten really mean towards him.

If he snaps at the children I send them to their rooms to play and I just lay into him. He just ignores me, I try to talk to him and he ignores me. I tell him I'm too tired and over wormed and need just alittle more help and he tells me he's tired. But won't even address anything else. I feel like I'm loosing all like for him. I feel nothing but yuck for him at this point.

I sometimes feel like I'm just too emotional, sometimes I feel like I'm too easy-going on him and he walks on me. He does allot. But the things I NEED he refuses to do. Some of the things he does doesn't even need doing I think he just does them to keep himself busy so he doesn't have to help.

I have no one to talk to about anything. I have zero family and no friends. I am so alone and overwhelmed..