im 28 weeks pregnant and my sister who is usually my best friend and whom i live with has been the absolute worst these last 28 weeks.

when I first found out I was pregnant she wanted to add another dog into the family and I told her I didn’t think it was a good idea (we already have a shorkie). she adopted an 8 months old pit mix rescue and he’s a terror! he doesn’t listen. he doesn’t get along too well with my other dog and he huge and I can’t handle him. she’s kind forced my hand on taking on a dog this pregnancy that I told her I wasn’t prepared for physically and mentally and I told her the other day i can’t care for him anymore be goes “well if you can’t help me i’ll have to rehome him because im super busy in the fall” she was just going to leave me to care for him while I was having a baby in october!

secondly, her car broke down so i’ve been letting her use my car and my boyfriend has been taking me to work but at night when he’s at work he can’t get me so she will have to. she makes it seem like the biggest deal in the world if she has to come get me when it’s MY car that she pays absolutely no bills on. she’s completely trashed my car (food, clothes, bottles, open liquor cans) and my car smells now! her and her kids are running my car to the ground! and she’s putting so many miles on it.

lastly, she asked me to increase the amount I pay for rent. im not too upset about it but she wants me to pay more when the whole reason i didn’t pay as much was because I give her two free days of child care where I feed and care for her kids at my expense and her kids have her own room and when my baby gets here she will be in the room with me!

she also just stopped planning the baby shower she was supposed to throw for me. im just really hurt and looking at her in a way I never have. sorry for the long post. just needed to vent.