Family wants my fiancé to Apologize

So my family wants me to tell my fiancé to apologize to my mother because he was giving her an attitude over the phone. My fiancé is very protective of me knowing that I am sad or hurt and he can’t take the pain away hurts him. I give birth in literally a few weeks less than a month and last night I was talking to him about it and crying because I am scared and conflicted I wanna have my mom there but I am afraid she’s going to minimize my pain or any complications I have during delivery. So my fiancé called her to talk to her about it because we haven’t spoken to each other in two months but from what I was told she has no problem being in the delivery room with me she just thinks the hospital that I choose to deliver the baby in because that’s where I feel safe is too far away ( this hospital is less than 45 minutes away from my house and her house). I am delivering my baby in the same hospital that my former best friend had chemotherapy and was hospitalized and she drove that distance no problem not being asked to go visit my friend because my friend is like a daughter to her, her sister gave birth in the same area but the hospital is like about 20 minutes away from where I am giving birth and she drove on more than one occasion to the hospital when her sister was giving birth no complaints. Her thing is she wants me to give birth in a hospital that I don’t feel safe delivering my baby in because that’s where she gave birth to my sister 16 years ago and nothing bad happened. On three separate occasions I have gone to this hospital and each occasion was worse than the last one, symptoms got ignored I got misdiagnosed and then their labor and delivery ward didn’t care and the nurse was rude as hell. My OB that I was seeing first that I am also very comfortable and feel safe with doesn’t even have privileges to deliver in the hospital The hospital that my OB at first has privileges to deliver babies at we both agree it’s not the best place to give birth. So since I’m a first time mom maybe some of you moms/grandma can shed light for me. Because right now I’m about to just completely cut her off