In 2009, I was hanging out with a group of friends, they were all males but we all ending up falling asleep at some point and I woke up to one of these “friends” with their hands down my pants. Trying to finger me etc. I haven’t talked to the person or seen him since. I freaked out and left because I didn’t know how to process what had happened from someone who was a friend. Fast forward to today, I live in a townhouse well I was on Facebook and someone I know popped up on the people you may know. I was looking at her profile and it turns out she’s married to the guy who did it and they moved to my apartment complex. I’m uncomfortable with knowing he lives around me or the idea of running into him. I wanna tell my boyfriend but I’m unsure of how to tell him about it.