Does a man know

I’ve been in a relationship for along time about 10 years in and off.

And I’m at a point where I want marriage.

We have a child we have a house and when this comes up he’s very hesitant.

His response is always oh well we argue.

Maybe if we work in that then we can.

Like u know me for 10 years decided to have a child with me and you not sure about marriage?

I just dnt understand.

It’s hurtful because I do everything. I work. He has another kid and I take care of her like she’s mine.

I just feel dumb n like a loser like I’m willing to do all of this and im the one asking you to marry me?

It’s to the point where I am not happy. I just don’t understand why he keeps giving me false hope . He tells me oh it’s guna happen just be patient . I feel worthless I feel stupid.

He tells me

Let’s just enjoy eachother