Love and sex

Ok. Help me please. 
I was raped, and then i met someone and didnt work out. 
I returned to church and decided to wait, but the mayority of guys i know in church are virgins. I want to wait till i get married even though im not a virgin, but im scared because my fiancee might be a virgin, do i have less value?? 😞😞😞😶😶 what if he asks if im a virgin? An hes a virgin. What if nobody from church wants to marry me??