I would like your opinions because I don’t have much life experience and don’t want to hurt anyones feelings. Two months ago I had a miscarriage at 3 + months along.

At this point I felt that I caused hurt to my sweet husband (even though only his eyes spoke in this situation)

I also felt that The situation hurt my extended families, my our moms and fathers.

A week ago I found out I am pregnant again. When do I tell them? I want to share the news badly. But I don’t want 9 months of advice. I don’t want everyone annoying me and worrying about the baby as if I am some dummy , in a sense. They will continually give me advice that I don’t need or want. I already have a beautiful 3 year old. So I know how to be healthy and pregnant.

Is it selfish what I am saying? Or is it okay to no say anything until I start showing or something of this level?

Thank you