Would you date him?
So I was talking to a guy but recently ghosted him like 2 days ago because of what he told me. So let me add this his me, him, and his ex girlfriend all know the same people so I was already pretty aware of their situation BUT I only knew what was on social media and not the private aspects of it. Back last year sometime they lost their baby boy and she was pretty far along in the pregnancy. Upon me and him attempting to date and get to know each other he went more in depth of what happened. (I never asked he offered to tell me, I know this is a touchy subject). In a way I’m glad he told me because it showed his red flag that I believe is a deal breaker for me. So turns out she had to terminate the pregnancy due to the baby having fluid on the brain in which the child would’ve had a poor quality of life as he stated. They gave mom a choice to birth the baby although he would be stillborn, she agreed. I told me he didn’t agree and said that it would be too much for him to be there and see his child be born deceased. I understood that but then again I was like mmm, yeah no! He opted out of going all together which left her in a situation where she was there alone. I ghosted him because I felt like that was selfish and idk……….. it gave me a very bad vibe/feeling. Would you still continue on with a man that told you this?
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