Ever dated two guys at once?

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I’m seeing two guys, and no I’m not in a relationship with either one, yet. But I know that they’re both going to want me to commit soonish but I don’t know which one to choose. I’m scared I let go of one only to regret it and not be able to get him back if it doesn’t work out with the one I chose. 
Anyone been in a similar situation? What should I do?

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Yeah been there done that. Was seeing guy A and guy  B at the same time, couldn’t decide who I wanted but was leaning more towards guy B. Then I met guy C who I knew straight away I wanted. So I cut guy A and B off and started a relationship with Guy C.
Loool and both guy A and guy B still message my phone to this day. 
Don’t rush into anything with either one until your sure. There’s nothing wrong with being open and not becoming attached too quickly. Do your research on both men, look for red flags and trust your feelings. Good luck 😉

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If you don't know then don't commit to either of them and don't let them pressure you to.

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I have found myself in this situation a few times. I am kind of a slide-ball and don’t mention it until someone starts pressing the issue. I usually am upfront from the start though and explain I like dating casually.

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No I talked to Multiple other guys while talking to my current boyfriend (before me and him got together almost a month ago) well I talked to these other guys I matched with on tinder along with my boyfriend but the other guys didn't feel right like my boyfriend did so I dropped everything and everyone for him and it was the best decision of my life I can't date 2 people I don't have enough time to do that since I do have 2 kids but I didn't need too bc I knew I wanted my boyfriend

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No. I don't have the time or attention....or the will to be bothered with multiple people at the same time. I can hardly deal with my own crap...let alone TWO other people. 🤣🤣🤣

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So I was dating/ talking to different guys at one point it was kind of my first ever dating experience and I did make it clear to them off the bat to clear any confusion but for me when it was obvious who felt more right it was really obvious and it made me act a little differently for it (I wasn't being rude to anyone still but the spark I had felt wasn't with with others anymore).
It's not fair to keep one around just in case because I did actually experience similar to what you describe with one of the guys and it can hurt. I was celebrating a great university grade and he was congratulating me and all of a sudden "I can't do this anymore" said he wasn't feeling it "if I was going to love you I wol have by now" and I think if I remember right he had mentioned feeling a spark with someone else  I was gutted as for me it came out of nowhere (and as I said one of my first dating experiences) but I respected it. Not long after about a month or so later he messaged saying I miss you now my dumbass took that as "we've not been speaking as friends I miss you" because of what he had said before! and I was like yeah I missed that too so we started talking again and I quickly realised no he wanted romance again and...I just couldn't. Because all I could think was he had already told me if I don't love you now I won't ever and I suspected things had fallen through with the other girl and it can make you feel like a backup feeling that and it just wasn't there anymore because of it. Maybe I did miss out on something special there but I've got something even amazing now for it and you can't spend your life giving everyone a chance just in case. If things don't work out there will be other chances :)
(Also I'm not engaged to the guy I did pick so maybe there is something to that old "gut instinct" 😁)

Ever dated two guys at once?

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