How do I feel?

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We are just about two months pregnant and my boyfriends ex girlfriend calls and she’s about 6/7 months pregnant.. 
he claims he wants to DNA test when the baby is born.. 
they’re planning a baby shower and etc and now I’m just so not excited about our first child since it’s now going to be his second.. I’m just so bummed out. Everyone knows about her but I’m still a secret until our first appointment on Monday the 22nd. 
I feel like this is how a depression spirals 🥺

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This is going to be a huge adjustment for both of you. Definitely get tested for STDs and STIs.

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So she just randomly called and said she is 6/7 months pregnant? I'd be asking for a DNA test too. Are you sure it is legit?
Honestly, live your life. You're with him. A lot of people keep it a secret until they've had appointments and confirm everything is fine. As soon as you have had your appointment, then you take control of things. Arrange a gender reveal, an announcement, a party... whatever you want. If he starts objecting to things, that would be a red flag to me. But this is your life and you remember that. There's no proof that girls baby is his yet so don't worry about things until you get to it.

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Just to be honest he is treating you like a side chick especially since nobody knows about you two. He wants a DNA but still is planning a baby shower with her. Red flags all over the place. He is gaslighting you and probably telling you he is not messing with her anymore which I’m sure is a lie

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