Would this low key hurt your feelings?

So I am decently active on social media, sharing family pics and such with family and friends (Facebook and Instagram). I don’t spend hours on it or anything but like if we go on a trip I will take pics and post them. But I’m very very private and my profiles are locked down.

My husband and I were talking about social media and he mentioned how he doesn’t have any. I was like “do you want it?” He said “I thought about it but that’s your territory.” I asked what he meant and he said “well you post pics of the kids and stuff and interact with people through it. That’s your socialization since you never go out and don’t have any friends.”

I was kinda taken aback. We live 500+ miles away from home because he’s active duty in the military. I have one local friend but her life is kinda messy so we don’t see each other often. My best friend lives in my home state. I dedicate most of my time taking caring of our kids and yeah I stay home 95% of the time because our son with autism hates being away from home.

It just kinda stung me like he was implying I’m this socially isolated loser and he can’t get a Facebook because it would somehow be encroaching on my “territory…”? He said if he got a Facebook and posted the same pics on Facebook it would be weird because he’d get more likes because he knows so many more people than me. I said that hurt my feelings and he said he didn’t mean it like that and that I just don’t know a lot of people and keep to myself, but I keep thinking about it. Is it weird that I only really have two friends? Is it weird I mostly stay at home?