Getting Pregnant

I’m so frustrated at this point in my life 2 miscarriages 4 chemical pregnancies, I’m so over it. Me and my husband have been trying for 4 years now for our first, and yes we’ve both been checked and everything looks fine, I have gotten my hopes up so much and every single time I’m let down, how do you ladies stay motivated. I’ve wanted kids since I could remember and it’s driving me crazy seeing others thrive with their 2nd and third pregnancies. I just don’t know what to do at this point. Thanks for listening :) baby dust to everyone