Does he seem pushy or desperate

This guy I have been talking too …YESTERDAY he asked if I wanted to come over today and hang out

I said we will see, I’ve got a lot going on

He said well I already called my boss and said I’m leaving early, so now what am I gonna do?!

I said ok, but we did agree you wouldn’t do that until it was definite.

He said I cleaned, did dishes and laundry, in case you were…guess the only thing you motivated me to do was clean 🤷‍♂️ I called the boss back and said guess I’m getting stood up and he laughed so hard!

So then I got a phone call and I found out my best friends 22 year old son had passed in a freak accident

I then said to the guy Sorry can’t make it, my friends son passed.

This morning he messaged me his address and said I called off work surely you’ve got a few hours to spare to see me! After all I cleaned this place up for you!!!!!

We’ve been talking for 8 days in case anyone was wondering