Who says that

So the guy I am with just started a new job his last actually job was last year and it lasted for about 3 months. Well he has been working for a little over a week now and he is acting like a dick. What do I mean I mean I take care of everything and everyone in this house 2 kids idk how many animals and my mom and dad because my dad is on chemo and my mom just had foot surgery. ( This is my mom and dads house) I take care of my brothers animals when he is out of town for extra money as well. Well tonight I let are 3 year old go to sleep at 7:30. He was so tired well my boyfriend gets home and is all pissed because he woke up and was not going back to sleep by the time he got home at 11:30 well it's not a big deal I have to stay up with him so he started going off on me for letting him go to sleep early. ( He was letting him go to sleep at 5-6 when he was not working and I had to stay up with him ) so I walk out of the room because I am not dealing with it he fallows me to the living room and started asking me what all I did today I didn't do much but a yard sale today I didn't really want to clean ( him and everyone else has told me I need to slow down and relax every now and then so I did today) well he then started going off about what I had not done and what I should have done and this and that and I was like I am sorry I just didn't want to do it today. So he got all pissy and said I just want to know what your contribution is 😳 I said excuse me my contribution. He said yeah I wonder what your contribution is because my contribution is working HE JUST STARTED A WEEK AGO !!! so that made the argument worse because what the fuck I said what ever and was done talking a few minutes later he comes back out and basically tells me I never do anything he asks and I never do anything that I say I will and I don't pay attention to the kids 🙄 all because my 3 year old trashed the living room today and I haven't cleaned it yet . the kids are always feed and taken care of clean clothes, every thing they need he mostly always has everything he needs as well the one day I decided hey maybe they are right I am kinda tired so I don't wanna do anything today he flips a lid on me 🫤 he also started counting how many days that I made dinner for everyone and the days I didn't make dinner in the last 2 weeks I missed 3 days and 2 of them we were not even home for dinner time. I don't even want to look at him right now honestly.