How do I tell my friend she needs to drop her ego a little bit?
My friend went through a traumatic break up but she is now doing very well and is mostly over it.
She's been on dating apps and have been meeting guys here and there but she's been approaching her dating life in an egotistical manner. If she's just wanting to take it easy and just keep it a one night stand kind of situation, it's fine but she's actually wanting to find someone to have a long time relationship with and her attitude has been a bit bothersome..
She is a hot girl. Everyone who meets her will agree and she herself knows it very well. I love her and appreciate her but she's been a bit too egotistic in her dating life and that's what I think is not working out.
She treats most of the guys she talks to as if they're below her and she will make fun of every little thing they say and do (not to their face but to me and other friends) The guys she thinks is "worthy" of her time are absolute fuck boys who don't give a shit about her and ghosts on her all the time. If I talk a bit highly of the dudes who she doesn't care about, she will say something like "of course they're going to want my time and attention"
It just bothers me that she's set out on this dating journey wanting to find something serious but it really seems to me that she's blinded by her ego and thinks all these good looking, sweet guys are below her just cause she thinks she can get those other fuck boys to notice her?
There's definitely more to the story that got me bothered by her attitude but how can I very kindly tell her to maybe consider dropping her ego down a little bit? I love her, respect her and want the best for her but I don't want to hurt her in any way.
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