I’m not letting anybody belittle me anymore!

I don’t know if any of u ever been belittled and if somebody made u feel like u ain’t worth it but my husband dose this to me all the time make me feel like I’m not worth the things have or like I should settle for less and I’m sick of it I got out after being at home for two years for having my babies I have a one and two year and I got me a job and I just purchased my own car that in my name the only car I ever had in my name and he get so mad when I clean it and try to take car of it so this morning he gets up saying little stuff to try and piss me off and he got mad when I started to work saying things like he don’t care about my job that’s my money and really trying to downplay like I’m not shit and every time he buy me something he say I pay for this or I pay for that belittling me like I don’t do anything I don’t no if y’all understand but I’m sick of it he want me to be depending on him when I didn’t have a job I didn’t get the things I need personal products he didn’t buy so I need to make my own money