Would you dump him?

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If someone you’d been seeing for 3 months text/saw you a lot in the beginning and asked you to be his g/f within a month but in the last couple weeks or so didn’t see you and hardly text at all? And when you confronted them on it they just said they had a lot going on but liked you/enjoyed spending time with you but then continued to not text/call you back/make plans with you?

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This is tricky. I wouldn’t necessarily break up with him because shit happens, people have lives (they can’t text back 24/7), and men can go through things. There’s points in the day where I don’t want to talk to anyone and I shut my phone off. If you really like him then you should give him a chance. Y’all have only been dating 3 months and I personally think it’s a dumb reason to break up with someone. If you can’t handle him not replying as soon as you send a message or going a few hours without replying. You may need to be single for a while and do some growing up.

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I don’t wait around for no man 
But that’s just me 
A man will put in effort if he’s serious about you. I wouldn’t accept anything less 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Yes. They are showing you how they feel. People make time for the things they want to make time for. He has lost interest unfortunately. I would end it asap.

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Nobody is this busy….I go to school full time work full time and have 5 kids and my SO still sees me and speaks to me all day long .

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Life is too short to be hanging round when there’s other opportunities. Who’s got time to be sat at home thinking when is he gonna text me back? Enjoy life and keep your options open for better things I say. X

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I would stop trying to contact him. If he makes no effort to see you within a week, let him go and move on. 
I don't chase anyone. If they don't want to be with or around me, it's cool.

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I went through that with my current bf… still together 7 years later!! if you feel it’s worth sticking by him and he’s going through a lot in his life, then do so because men have emotions and go through a lot too and they  just don’t know how to express it and so they kind of just fall back. I liked my bf a lot, i mean A LOTTTTTT, and he was going through hell with just a little bit of everything in his life and things literally went the same way you explained. And i was scared he didn’t like me and he kept reassuring me that he liked me alot too he just needed space. We both were younger at the time too so it was just everything. Give him time and space and help him anyway you can, he will come back around when things get better. Even though my mom liked him a lot herself, she felt he wasn’t that into me because well obvious reasons lol but things got better in his life and our relationship grew 💗 i don’t regret waiting for him and helping him along the way.

Would you dump him?

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