Is she right?

Question

I'm always talking to my best friend of 10 years about the problems in my marriage and today she called and told me that she can't hold it in anymore and she really thinks I should leave my husband. She finds him unsupportive and he's constantly making promises that he doesn't keep. A couple months ago he said he made an appointment to see a therapist and he never went. I thought he was really changing for me but it was all just a bluff so I didn't pack up and leave. She wants me to come home to my parents but I know my mom would never understand. Before I talk to her I would like a little more advice. Do you think she's right?

Answer

Putting your marriage in the hands of family and friends is never the answer. Do you ever call your friend and tell her things he did right or just because? If your constantly downing your husband to others your putting your marriage at risk simply because they will do exactly what she has- suggest you leave. And talk negative about him to you as well. 
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​It's your marriage, only you can decide if it's worth saving. And if it is- you have to be the one to take it by the reigns and perhaps go together to therapy as a couple. Marriage isn't easy, but it shouldn't be misreable either. Sharing your life with someone is a blessing and you should wake up everyday happy.

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The most important question you should ask yourself is, do YOU think she's right? How do you feel about it? 
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​Don't let others influence you to make decisions about your relationship. It's yours lol!

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My advise is go to a place where you can think by yourself and listen to that soft quite voice as to what you should do. You're gut, heart, and consensus might not always seem to be in line but if you take the time to really.think everything through you'll know what's best for you and your family.

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My boyfriend has always treated me well as a whole, and we've had a happy relationship. My best friend has told me on numerous occasions that she feels I should leave him because I deserve better. I realized that some of the only times I've ever mentioned him to her was when I was cranky and complaining about him to her! She doesn't see us interact on a normal basis and all she ever hears are the negatives which are completely outweighed by his positives. Since then I've made it a habit to relate to her everything about our relationship--not just the days when he falls asleep while talking to me or when I misunderstand his assessment of my new favorite outfit, but also the days he brings me flowers, buys me a tank of gas, or shows hard work and integrity at his job. Talk more to your husband about the strengths and weaknesses in your relationship, and less to your friends about his shortcomings.

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Every husband should show and make his wife feel like she's his partner, his queen, and that he will always give her his 110% effort.

Is she right?

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