Recently I rekindled with an old bestfriend a few months ago. She told me she was pregnant and I was so happy for her! Regardless of how much and how long I’ve been trying, I was so excited. (for context, last time we stopped being friends was because I was going through a tough depression. I felt as if she didn’t care, she always redirected our conversations back to about her, etc.) So, she knows I’ve been trying for a few years now. The same thing has kept recurring, she redirects every single conversation to be about her. Which I sort of tried to understand, she’s excited, she’s pregnant, i’m one of her only friends. It started to get to me considering how hard I’m trying and she’s just constantly saying “omg get pregnant! try harder! me and ____ didn’t even have to really try!” i find it inconsiderate on her part as well, or maybe she’s just not self aware (she’s a very self absorbed person). Once her son was born, she had flooded our messages with baby pics at random times, we could just be chatting about random things and her baby or pregnancy popped up. Am I wrong in this situation? I know it’s not her or anyone else’s fault that I’m not able to get pregnant right away, I just feel she could be more understanding of my feelings?

(She always just sent me info about this random girl we’re not even friends with…”omg ____ is pregnant! I’m so happy for her.”) sigh.