What am I doing wrong

Question

Hello I’m 20 years old my boyfriend and I have been trying to get pregnant for going on two months I had got the Depo shot in ending of may maybe early June I know they say it takes months for your period to come back and for you to be able to conceive but I got my period middle of August which was unlikely because I didn’t get my period for like 9 months on depo. After August I got a period And in September then I just got it. October 1 me and my boyfriend have sex every day he cums in me all the time why am I not getting pregnant. Is it me because it broke my heart to get my period today we thought I could have been pregnant I was 6 days late

Answer

It takes time.
Conception is a science. There’s only a max of 30% chance one day in a cycle with perfect conditions. 
This is why it can take up to 1 year for a healthy couple under 35 to get pregnant. 
I highly recommend learning your cycle and understanding ovulation. Look into using opks and/or bbt.

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Also one very important thing is that it doesn’t matter how many times you have unprotected sex. It’s about when you have it. You need to have sex within 3 days (most likely to conceive; 1 day before the chance is like 38%) of ovulation and a max of 5 days but that is the most ideal environment for the sperm to live in and that’s not very likely. A lot of people (myself included until I looked into it) don’t know that the timing is so important. You can only get pregnant 3 days out of the whole month (again, max is 5 but it’s really so statistically slim) and having unprotected sex any other time won’t do anything. I blame the US lack of sex education for that one lololol (for me at least).
But you guys just started trying and most certainly do not expect to get it right away or you’ll set yourself up for a lot of heartbreak, especially coming off of birth control recently.
I wish you all the best and baby dust to you 🤞💖

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It takes a completely normal/healthy couple an average of 12 months to conceive. Don’t beat yourself up.

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It can take months, even years.
You sound a little uneducated on how ovulation and your cycle works, I would suggest you familiarise yourself with it all.

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You haven’t been trying for long. Also, could be your fertility, his fertility, your body still may not have got back to normal since the depo. Can be many things. 
Don’t stress tho as that can be a major factor. Don’t make it a task, make it fun and enjoyable. Finally, sex every day doesn’t work for all as some men have a low sperm count. Lots of things to consider and lots of time to figure it out. Honestly, there’s no rush.

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Are you having sex at the right time within your cycle?

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