Husband is giving me the silent treatment because I turned him down for sex

I told my husband no to sex last night because he kept me up all night the night before because he got drunk and when he drinks he snores and takes up the entire bed. I went to sleep exhausted the next night and then woke up to texts sent a few hours after I went to bed accusing me of not loving him and straight up blaming me as the reason why he can’t sleep because he didn’t get off. I proceed to say what I expect most people would say. That it’s my body and I should be allowed to say no etc. he is now giving me the silent treatment. All because I said no. This is a reoccurring argument in our relationship and it never gets better. We have sex multiple times a week if not every day and half the time i tell him yes even though I don’t want to just so that he won’t be mad at me. I feel like I have no control over my own body and no matter how I explain it or how many articles I send him he doesn’t care. I feel like a object to him. I feel like he doesn’t think he has to treat me right in order to get sex because he thinks he is obligated to it. I’m miserable. He’s made sex into something miserable for me. I don’t know what im supposed to do. Im not even trying to talk to him at this point. I don’t understand how he can think I’m in the wrong. I barely ever say no because this is what happens. I was just so fucking tired.